Saturday, May 31, 2014

CHAPTER 6--WEEK of JUNE 1 to JUNE 7 2014

May 31--SATURDAY--On our ride to Keokuk, Iowa to go to Wal Mart on Monday, we were discussing some of the things we wanted to add to this chapter of our mission journal and the first one was the incredible double rainbow we saw coming out of the temple Saturday night after our shift.  We were too late for a picture because by the time we got to the car and got the camera it had begun fading.  But we were in luck because one of our fellow missionary friends did get the picture which I know has been sent out but I wanted to post it here too.  Here it is:

Is that awesome or what!!!

Now with that said I have to also stop and thank Beth for getting this Blog up and running for us.  We could not have done this without her.  Thanks so much Beth.  The real test will be if I can finally use this for updates instead of docs and albums.  We shall see. :)

June 1—Sunday—this was Break the Fast Sunday—along with the Anderson’s we decided that on the first Sunday of the month we would stay in Nauvoo and attend church here.  The Anderson’s had the assignment of hosting this month and were assigned to go to their home along with the Tanner’s (Salt Lake City Temple), the McKechnie’s (Mt. Timpanagos Temple).  The McKechnie’s know the Glavinic’s as I mentioned earlier.  Brother Tanner is a sealer and actually lived in the Los Angeles area and was a dentist to many Hollywood stars, one he mentioned in a story was Raquel Welch.  He was actually driving with Elder Wickman and received a phone call and asked Elder Wickman to take down the number which he did.  Elder Wickman asked Elder Tanner who his patient was and he said Raquel Welch which was a surprise but both of them laughed about it.  To truly understand the story you would have to know who Raquel Welch is, which we do.  Sister Anderson prepared Hawaiian Haystacks and they were yummy.

We attended the Nauvoo 1st Ward that morning and was impressed with the sizable crowd.  This ward meet s at 10 am and so many tourists come to this wards before going to visit the sites which are open on Sunday from 11 am to 5 pm.  The testimonies that were given were all from the Nauvoo 1st Ward.  2 sisters who bore their testimonies were truly inspiring.  Both were older sisters but bore such pure and sweet testimonies.  One of the sister’s testified how grateful she was for the Lord “pulling her out of the gutter” at a very sad time of her life many years ago.  Her mother happened to be with her that day and she is not a member.  The sister said she had never born her testimony to her mother publicly and wanted her mother to hear her testimony.  She testified of her divine nature as a daughter of God.  The other sister echoed some of the same thoughts and feeling and was just as inspirational and felt she too had been “pulled out of the gutter” at a very low point in her life.  This sister began each statement with “I testify that”…which truly brought the spirit as she spoke of those things she testified of.  One of the things she testified of was regarding obedience.  She said we would all be more obedient if we understood the blessings the Lord has in store for us.  The thought came to me that these two sisters were able to bear these testimonies like they did “because of Him.”
In Sunday School the brother teaching the Old Testament Sunday School lesson #21—God Will Honor those Who Will Honor Him—gave a good lesson.  He actually stuck close to the manual and gave most of the quotes that were in the lesson.  One of which is as follows and is something parents have the responsibility to do:
President Joseph F. Smith taught: “There should [not] be any of us so unwisely indulgent, so thoughtless and so shallow in our affection for our children that we dare not check them in a wayward course, in wrong-doing and in their foolish love for the things of the world more than for the things of righteousness, for fear of offending them” (Gospel Doctrine, 5th ed. [1939], 286).
As taught in the lesson, all of us must choose each day whom we will honor.  Whatever our choice each day it will either lead us closer to our Father in Heaven, keep us farther from Him or keep us frozen on the path so that we move neither forward or backward.  We testify that the blessings of following God’s plan brings true peace and joy with the blessings that are received or will be received in the Lord’s due time.
This just seemed to be a Sunday full of inspiration.  In Relief Society it was no different.  The teacher that day was Sister Angie Espinoza, a counselor in the Relief Society Presidency.  She chose as her topic Elder Uchtdorf’s April 2014 Conference message, Grateful in Any Circumstance.  She chose a visual to help her teach that day of making lemonade.  She referenced the well-known quote, “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.”  She also talked how many times you need to be like a duck and let little irritating things and offenses roll off your back allowing you to keep in the proper spirit to be grateful.  As she taught the counsel of President Uchtdorf she also mentioned the following:  Her sister taught her 3 things about having an attitude of gratitude.  1) If you are comparing yourself to another or 2) if you are complaining or 3) if you are coveting it is very difficult to maintain an attitude of gratitude.  She ended with the counsel from D & C 59:21 “21 And in nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things, and obey not his commandments.”  What we become is our great gift of gratitude to God!
This inspiring Sunday also brought to mind 3 classic talks that have come up in conversation in our experiences here in Nauvoo as we have visited sites or gone to activities:  Elder Bednar’s Tender Mercies talk, Elder Uchtdorf’s Forget Me Not talk and Elder Eyring’s, O Remember, Remember talk.  These three themes are seen in the lives of our Nauvoo brothers and sisters.  Many tender mercies came their way, let us never forget them and their sacrifices and examples of committed disciples of Christ’s and let us be grateful to them for their recorded journals so that we can learn from them and then take that example of record keeping into our lives by recording in our journals and histories the Lord’s hand in our lives.
June 2, Monday--one of other things that is being reinforced here in our mission is how the times and seasons of our lives show that change is a constant, natural part of our life experience.  Certainly the pioneer saints experienced their fair share of change just as we do in our lives today.  But whether it is the pioneer saints or the saints in these latter-days one thing that never changes and is always evident if we pause and long enough to recognize it, is that the Lord is always there in any given situation where change has taken place, expected or unexpected, recognized or unrecognized.
Today, as we visited Main Street in “Old Nauvoo”, we saw how a people expelled from one state came to another and with their faith in God built a bustling city from a swamp with a main street that would rival any other main street on the frontier of America.  Did they let change get them down in that time and season of their life—no.  They began again and the again no matter what.
As we visited the Print Shop where the Times and Season newspaper and the Nauvoo Neighbor were printed we found a place where daily or weekly changes were recorded as the times and seasons of the saints marched on.
The Nauvoo Neighbor was a weekly publication with current events which included, local, national and world news, practical advice and advertisements.
The Times and Seasons was the official publication of the church which came out twice monthly which was like the Ensign of our day publishing the words of the prophets and other revelations and significant teachings of the day.



As change came again to John Taylor’s family they embraced it with the faith and commitment born of an abiding testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ,

In his home upstairs in the children’s room we learn of a story about John Taylor and the love of a father.  The family was busy preparing for the exodus to the west.  Young Joseph Taylor was helping but he knew once the wagon was loaded they would have to leave.  He had been told that the wagon would hold only so much.  When that fact finally settled into his heart he ran upstairs to be with the wood rocking horse his father had carved for him.  He realized he would have to say good-bye to it forever.  How could he handle that change in his sweet little life?  He was brave as they shut the door, tied the canvas cover over their wagon left their beautiful brick home for the last time to begin a new season in their family’s life.
John Taylor noticed that evening after the camp was set up after crossing the Mississippi, that his son Joseph was sitting by the fire trying to keep warm with a trouble look in his face.  He went over and place his hand on Joseph’s shoulder and asked his son to tell him what was wrong.
Joseph felt foolish because he knew everyone left important things behind and he was trying to be so brave about it.  He started to cry and said, “I miss my horse, I love him so much and I’ll never see him again.”
John Taylor pulled his son close and said, “I understand.  You shouldn’t feel ashamed for missing something you love.”

That night after the camp was hushed in darkness, John Taylor, and apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ, the apostle who had been injured in the Carthage Jail and who witnessed the martyrdom of Joseph and Hyrum Smith, stole back across the Mississippi river, risking being caught by angry mobs, and got his son’s horse.

When Joseph saw his horse tied to the outside of the wagon next day he ran to his father’s outstretched arms.

How could young Joseph handle that change?  In this instance, the Lord’s love and the love of his father helped ease the change of a young child by rescuing a beloved rocking horse.

How the Lord will help each of us with the changes we face in our lives may not be the same as young Joseph, but He will help us of that we are sure.



As we have mentioned, the Lord’s gospel truth does not change in any of the times and seasons of our lives and we fully recognize that which is one of the most beautiful parts of the gospel.
Visiting the other sites that day were we learned ways in which we can handle change.
At the Post Office and Mercantile we had a dose of how the saints loved to communicate with their families far away and how they too, had to shop for goods just like we do.  Communication is just as important for us today in its many and varied forms.  They only had one way, a letter.  We have several choices.  It was very expensive to send a letter at that time.  They devised a way to write as much as they could on one piece of paper.  Communication was a way to let their families know of changes in their lives just as email, texting and phoning is our way.  The lessons on communication are many but the one we know to be the most important is our communication with our Father in Heaven through prayer.
 
The other two shops on Main Street are the Stoddard Tin Shop and the Browning Home and Gunsmith Shop.  We learned here in these two places that the way to truly handle any change in the times and seasons of our lives is to follow the prophet and the pattern of our savior Jesus Christ.
John Browning was a gifted and inventive gunsmith.  He and his family went to live near his brother in Quincy, Illinois.  Here they heard of Joseph Smith.  They went up the river to investigate and were converted to the gospel.  They left with the saints in 1846 in one of the first groups and got as far as Winter Quarters expecting to continue on West with the first group.  Brigham Young told the Browning’s they were needed to stay and help assist the saints coming behind them.  He did as directed by the prophet and ended up not arriving in Salt Lake until 1852 because of his commitment to follow the prophet.
 
 
Sylvester Stoddard was one of many tinsmiths in Nauvoo.  He was among the many tinsmiths who supplies the growing need of tin ware in Nauvoo.  A good tinsmith had to have a good pattern so he could cut the tin correctly so the pieces could fit together exactly as needed for whatever item he was making.  Just as pattern’s used by the tinsmith needed to be followed exactly  we need to follow the pattern of the gospel and savior Jesus Christ exactly to be able to receive whatever help the Lord will give us as we meet the challenges and changes in our lives.
Sylvester was no stranger to change in his life when his wife Charity died of consumption in 1844 leaving him with one daughter.


We are also seeing or hearing how our fellow temple workers or patrons face changes, whether it is health struggles, family issues, accidents or just the aging process, these faithful and committed saints meet their changes just as our pioneer saints did.  One example is 2 stroke victims we have met or seen in the temple.
One brother has had 3 strokes and has survived with some residual effects but does remarkably well but is on medical disability.  The other brother is a patron who comes as often as he can to the temple.  He was in one of our sessions and to see him struggle to keep his independence yet be so happy to be there is just such a sweet experience.  Each brother credits their temple attendance as the reason they can function as they do with the change they were suddenly faced with.
So Monday our testimonies were once again infused and strengthened by the examples and reminders of how change is a constant, natural part of our lives but if we follow the prophet, communicate with our Father in Heaven in prayer and continue to patter our lives after the Savior we can meet these changes with the help of the Lord.
June 3, Tuesday—today I sent out an email about John Edward Middleton.
 
Today is June 3, 2014 and on this day in our family history 35 years ago, John Edward Middleton passed away.  For some of you he is your father, for some of you he is your grandfather, for some of you he is your great-grandfather, for one of you he is your father-in-law, for me he is my dad.  Although some of you may not have known him personally just take it from me you would have enjoyed his winning smile and sense of humor.  Even with all his health struggles he always kept his sense of humor and winning smile.  His love for me, my mother, Marilyn, Linda and his parents and sisters was unwavering.  I look forward to being with him again someday.  His funny stories and funny faces are always to be remembered with a laugh and a smile.  When he passed away that day I felt a peace in my heart that his burden of pain that he had suffered with for so many years was finally gone for which I was truly grateful. June 16th will be his birthday.  He died just 13 days before his 74th birthday, if he were still with us today he would be 108 years old.  I know where he is today--he is walking my mother and Granny and Grandpa Middleton, Aunt Aline and Uncle Jim, Aunt Julie and Uncle Ned, Aunt Ann and Uncle Mick, Aunt Carrie and Uncle Herb, Aunt Blanche and Uncle Bud and the rest of our precious ancestors and I am sure he is keeping them laughing too.  He would want all of us to keep smiling and laughing as we continue on this mortal journey.
We talked with Jeff, did the budget, Nancy got a haircut and I talked with Marilyn.  I decided to stay home from the lecture on Joseph Fielding Smith and caught up on some rest and journaling.
June 4, Wednesday—our normal AM shift, lunch at Pete’s that opened for summer—not that great, but eatable, we had hamburgers.  We had dinner at the Steve and Terri Wilson’s a temple missionary couple from Portland Oregon who invited a few couples over to have chicken enchiladas because she wanted to make them and she only knows how to make a large batch.  The Stanley’s, Cottrell’s, Marshall’s, and Roger’s were there.  Very nice.  That evening we went to the Trail of Hope Vignette’s with the Young Performing Missionaries.  They portray stories of the saints who left Nauvoo late in the evening 3 times a week.  The Trail of Hope used to be called the Trail of Tears until President Hinckley suggested the name be changed to the Trail of Hope to represent looking forward to a new home in the west.  It was very well done and the performances were very good.


 
June 5, Thursday—in the morning we went down to Main Street again and saw the Young Performing Missionaries do what is called The Youth of Zion where they sing and dance and tell stories of what the youth of Nauvoo did at the time the saints were living here.  We then went to our temple PM shift.
June 6, Friday—today we went to Keokuk to buy a hanging plant for out front.  We were told that the planters our front would be maintained by other people this year instead of the temple missionaries.  That was “changed” and we were told we could plant flowers and maintain the beds.  Sister Bass took the lead and planted flowers in the beds with the Hepworth’s help.  We contributed a hanging plant for a plant pole that was already there.  It looks very nice.  This was the day I also finally, finally, finally got into the Lucas to Nauvoo Blog Beth set up for us and actually posted something which was very exciting.  Of course this was just minutes before our Friday PM shift so I couldn’t give it my all, but I was excited to get started to say the least.  We learned this week that Megan received her patriarchal blessing which we were so glad to hear about.  Awesome Megan, just awesome!  What an example Megan is to all of the Lucas posterity.
June 7, Saturday—this past week they were doing what they call fire hydrant flushing and we were given a warning that it may not be a good idea to wash whites, so today I had to get caught up with the laundry before our temple shift.  I was well under way with the laundry when the PM shift coordinator called and asked me to be a guide for someone coming to the temple for the first time which meant I needed to be there 2 hours earlier than usual.  Chuck dropped me off and went to the Family Search Center and then came at the usual time.  This turned out to be a very special experience for me because the young woman who was recently called to be a missionary in the San Diego Mission.  Yes, that is our mission.  She was very sweet and I could tell she will be a wonderful missionary.  Which brings me to the end of another great week in the Nauvoo Illinois Temple Mission.

Chuck's Nauvoo Moment--June 7, 2014

79 STEPS

The Nauvoo Temple has a magnificent spiral staircase that goes from the basement to the top of the temple. (5th floor) Every day when I arrive at the temple I take the 79 steps up the beautiful staircase to the dressing room on the 4th floor. I accomplish this climb more cheerfully on some days than others. It is a good symbol to ponder that a climb is necessary to prepare to labor in the temple each day.
As you all know, most of life for each of us is a climb up our “79 steps.” No matter what time or season in life that we find ourselves there are steps to climb. Some days they are steeper and longer than others. Some days (like in the temple) there is an elevator available for our convenience and comfort.
Not all days are created equal. The challenges and opportunities each day presents can’t always be expected or certain. This world was designed to require each of us to work and sacrifice for what we need and want as we look up in faith.
No one has the same “79 steps” to climb each day. The steps are tailored to our talents and capabilities but they always go up toward Him.
I know our Heavenly Father lives and that he loves us. I know His Son made it all the way to the top and that He has a plan to get each of us up those "79 Steps" every day of our lives.
One scripture:  Whosoever will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me—Mark 8:34
One quote:  When Jesus said, "Come, follow me," it was an invitation, not a taunt—Neal A. Maxwell